
Welcome to 2009!
At Christmas time, Rod was talking with a friend who asked us how we are doing. Rod said things are great, but Zindra and I could really use some alone time. I guess a few days later Rod & our friend made arrangements to stay at a friends house shortly after the new year for a couple of nights. Rod surprised me with it... and needless to say I was SO incredibly excited about it.
Rod's been home, unemployed, going to school, for about 6 months. We've had some good times, some stressful times, yet no alone times. I had been craving a quite house, cooking for 2, watching movies, and snuggling on a couch without distractions.
I love our kids... Next to Rod, they are the best thing I've ever done. Yet, when you have somewhere like a grandparents house where they can go, and you don't have to worry or even think of them... it's nice to take advantage of it occasionally.
Pre-unemployment, Rod used to get business trips through Verizon, that we turned into vacations. Once a year, or once every other year we would go to some extravagent place. Florida is one of my favorite places of all time because of the fantastic memories that I have from there. Since he hasn't been at Verizon, we haven't been able to travel.
This weekend we were able to take our trip to Alger for some "alone" time.
Leaving and coming home is usually stressful. Trying to get all of our quackers in a row so that we can go... is usually a bit of work. It was worth it though.

Friday we thought we'd get out of the house early to take a test for the Census, but missed the test b'c we didn't have the right start time. Then Rod called to find out about unemployment extention (something he has to do before the Workforce unemployment will kick in, supposedly for the remainder of his school time) which turned out to be incredibly stressful. Finally we were able to leave.
We had to borrow our friends truck because the roads in Alger are like ours were a couple of weeks ago, still partly covered with snow. The house is up & down quite a few different hills & we didn't think we should do it without chains...
We went to Bellingham, thinking that I could go to the stitching store there. Apparently, it's been closed. So we went to the scrapbooking store instead. Bought a cute little project to do for my mom for Mother's Day. Yes, I'm always thinking ahead! Then we went to the local store and bought groceries for a few meals.
We hung out, watched movies, I stitched, ate and really did as little as possible. We got dinner Saturday night from Alger Bar & Grille. I took my laptop, but you'd be proud, I did nothing on it for the whole trip!
We watched a couple of movies that i've wanted to see, but had no desire to rent (ie: The Mummy, The Mummy 2), watched The Dark Knight, so that we could be caught up culturally, and watched one that I wouldn't have laid a hand on normally, but thought it was quite funny (ie: John Tucker Must Die).
And then coming home, I was in such a great mood, only to have my emotional feet swept out from underneath me by a family member grumbling about something. So I spent the afternoon, feeling unappreciated. I just couldn't get my feet under me. Finally I took a nap and woke up feeling somewhat refreshed and able to cope. A good nap usually does that!
Rod and I hung out after the kids went to bed, not wanting "our" weekend to end. Love you Rod!